love is...

was listening to fm93.3 (singapore-mediacorps) and it had this advertisment stating what is love...

some of it goes like these....
love is... like striking the 1st prize in 4D (lottery) some people strike a few times in their lifetime, some...never!
love is... when you want me, i will be there and when you don't i will not be there... (to bother you)
love is... like a can of fizzy drink, the spark disappear very fast once the can is opened

my view?
love is simple yet complex.
there is no right or wrong in love.
its impossible to say that love doesn't envy although you are talking abt prefect love (Jesus')
but humanly speaking love is a selfish thing but when you love beyond the enough...
its abt letting go and helping your love one becoming the person he/she is capable of being.
hmm... chiam leh?
so what is love? platonic? romantic? motherly? brotherly? fatherly? sisterly? too many to count!

may this V-day be a day that celebrates not just romantic love but also all the love in the world!
have a wonderful day!

some random stuff

because i miss his laugher.
i started eating the food that he used to enjoy.

because i miss his voice
i started listening to music and songs that he used to hum.

because i miss having him near
i started visiting places that he used to mention.

because i am who i am
i will not let him know these,
i will be brave and strong.
when he sees me again someday,
he will say "you had grown much".

because of that such a day,
i will press in and battle the fear and lost within.

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leaving him was a decision to release us from both our pain
leaving him was a way to preserve our love with memories
yet the process of it all hurts like a stabbing a blunt knife into the delicate heart

i screamed into the lofty skies but the sound seems to be choke in between somewhere.
the scream seems to had got struck in my windpipe.
i am choking, choking in my sorrows and pain.
will i survive through this?

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