my heart...

my heart was torn apart and fixed back into pieces again. i stared into the screen watching the couple battle against their gulit and their pride. they had loved and were still loving each other but untold anger not only seperated them physically, it blocked them emotionally towards each other.

the need to love and to be loved, the need to understand and to be understood. so many times we only focus on our need to be loved and to be understood that we forget others have their needs too. what will life is if we are only griped by gulit and all those "should had done this/that for her/him"? it will be terrible. it might make us a better person when we meet the next-in-line but sometime we may try so hard that the 2nd best knows it only too well that we are trying so very hard. so hard that its choking not only us but him/her as well.

no, i am not going through some difficult times but may i recommend the show "alone in love" a korean drama to all who are married and is starting to dislike your spouse.



let us not live a day in our life filled with regrets. =)